You look out for these red flags intentionally because if you’re not, you are most likely to sway in the excitement and romance of a new relationship. 

People tend to miss out on red flags in this ‘honeymoon phase’ of a relationship. Sometimes even if they notice or some part of them is screaming about it, they ignore it or just bury it. 

Some of these red flags can appear on the first date itself but mostly they don’t. Sadly, it appears or more accurately gets highlighted when relationships tend to get more real. 

But till then, you are more prone to get emotionally abused and hurt or even got yourself into a toxic relationship that becomes almost impossible to get out of. 

So the best scenario is to be vigilant with these red flags in dating and spot them as soon as you can and do something about them.  

But even for that, you need to know more accurate and intense red flags in dating which are more likely to endanger your self-worth and relationship than others. So here are these you need to look out for. 

Controlling Behavior Due To Projecting Their Insecurity On You 

The is amongst worst red flags in dating you can find in your partner is controlling behavior and jealousy. Most of the time both go hand-to-hand. 

This starts from your partner being jealous which led to more controlling behavior. 

Or you can say that controlling behavior is the result of them being jealous which further can be about them being insecure about themselves. 

The last thing you would want is a jealous partner because they will suffocate you in the relationship and can make every moment feel like hell. 

And you can get into the trap of thinking it to be temporary or a form of passionate love or something, and sometimes it can be. 

So the best thing is always to first address it and tell them about how you feel. If they take it constructively and accept how they are projecting their insecurity on you, then there might be hope. 

But in any case, it is a red flag, and you need to reconsider being with this person. The worst is to not notice it and start to adapt accordingly as if that is needed to be done. 

Lying More Frequently Than Usual 

If you are finding yourself in a situation where you catch your partner lying or being dishonest more frequently, then that’s one of the red flags in dating right there. 

Everyone lies. Even though some of us do more than others but there is still hesitation and shame attached to it which keeps your conscious at bay. 

But if you are finding your partner lying more casually, just white lies, and that too with no effort to really cover that up. And it’s going on for some time, that’s something to look at. 

And these lies can be small as just hiding details or manipulating a statement or it can be something big. 

Getting lies and lies from a partner again and again only going to hollow your relationship and eat up the foundation where the trust holds everything. 

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Consistent Put-downs  

Nothing hurts your self-esteem than a partner consistently putting you down whether subtly, passive-aggressively, or even more blatantly. 

These put-downs are basically a form of emotional abuse which end up making people have self-doubt, insecurity, and anxiety about their relationship. 

Not to mention, such emotional abuse is as harmful as physical health. Such things contribute to bigger mental illness and conditions as well. 

The more you are into your partner, and the longer the relationship, the more damage it is going to cause. 

This is a shouting red flag in a relationship if you see your partner is being passive-aggressive to you all the time, taunting you, blaming you, ridiculing you, commenting on you, or even shaming you. 

You can at least start by addressing these issues to your partner and if they fail to recognize and take responsibility and are willing to change, it is high time you rethink your relationship. 

Unwillingness And Inability To Compromise 

Compromise is the bedrock of a mature relationship. 

It is about understanding the simple fact that people are flawed and everyone has some shortcomings. Also, they want something and expect something. 

So compromise helps find a common ground on which both partners find respect and trust for each other and on which they lay their foundation for the relationship. 

But what if your partner is unwilling to compromise on almost anything. Even if they are not going to compromise on little things where they certainly can. 

And more than that, if you can see that your relationship is just one-sided and the efforts are not from another side, it becomes distasteful and resentful. 

You are getting passive-aggressive and feeling unfair and hurt. The early on you can get out of this is better, so watch out for this red flag. 

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Running Away From Difficult Situations, Discussions, And Avoid Confrontation

If you have a partner who lacks the mechanism to confront the conflicts and doesn’t have the courage to solve them, instead running away in such a situation, then that’s a red flag. 

People who cannot face difficult conversations, real talks, and anything that requires responsibility and understanding tend to run away or ignore them. 

They walk away from arguments without listening to your side. They avoid getting into the root of the problems that you both face in the relationship. 

Most often they are also like this in their own lives. They have trouble difficulty dealing with emotions and flee in such situations. 

They might have their own demons to face or go through something but they are certainly not ready or suitable for a relationship, so better watch out for this red flag. 

Inability To Commitment and Getting Real In The Relationship 

Every date can be casual at the start, in fact, it is better in many ways. 

But if you can see that your partner is not getting real with the relationship, is unwilling to, or is just reluctant, that’s the red flag. 

Every relationship needs work, needs communication, real talk, and much more effort to make it work and then it slowly gets to a place where you can both take it easy. 

But if your partner is not willing to put the work into the relationship, that’s could be an alarming factor for a lot of reasons. 

They might be hiding something, or lying to you, or they might not be serious enough which can be detrimental to you. 

The worst is when you are at the third level and they are just one of the first. The signs could be them not getting into a real conversation, running from the future prospect of your relationship, or any planning regarding it. 

Lacking Open Communication In Your Relationship 

If you suspect a lack of open healthy communication in your relationship, it’s a red flag, not just for your partner but for the overall relationship. 

Healthy communication is the foundation of every relationship. In fact, if you just get it right, everything else can be sorted out. 

When you see a healthy relationship, it is all about creating a safe space for both partners where they can just share anything openly without any fear of judgment. 

These are the alarming red flags in dating that you need to look out for. Again, you don’t have to be doubtful and investigative in a relationship to intentionally find out these red flags in dating or your love life, you just have to be vigilant.

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